HEY-OH!
WELL, well, WeLL...
Angela was visibly sad and upset yesterday when I spoke to her about "being banned" from Nadya's home.
Angela TOLD ME that she hopes she is not banned because she loves those children. But, NADYA said GRANDMA had to sneak over to the La Habra home yesterday afternoon while NADYA was gone.
It all stemmed from the Life & Style Magazine article recently published where Angela was quoted as saying that the children left a mess in her Whittier home.
Angela and Ed deny saying this and told ME that the reporter misinterpreted and fluffed the story. They also told me that they took photos of their home without permission and that the photos were of a room where they have items out on the floor. The stuff is there since they are moving and they need to sort through whatever then want to keep.
Angela even told ME that Ed went over to explain the situation but that Nadya would have nothing to do with her father!
Nadya said she asked him politely to leave because she did not want to talk about it.
Anyway, Nadya says she needs time to sort this out. In the mean time, the grandparents have to find a way to see the children who they dearly love.
And, the EYEWORKS film crew have to go back to the UK until the childrens permits are approved. Luke Campbell told ME that he has 10 day sto film and that he wants to save some of them for when he comes back. Since he can't film the children yet, he wants to chill the filming for now.
Nadya GAVE ME a WWEI (world wide exclusive interview) BUT OCTORAZZI PAID THE PRICE!!!!! Eyeworks GOT IT ALL ON FILM!!!! But, OCTORAZZI GOT HER TO TALK ABOUT HER FINANCES!!! OCTODAD!!!! HER CHILDREN!!!!! and MUCH MUCH MORE COMING UP ANY TIME NOW!!!! KEEP ON A CLICK-IN' !!!
Here are some pics!!!
LATES!!!!



How can Octogranny & Octogramps say that the reporter "misinterpreted or "fluffed" their story?
When it was Octogranny in the video or was that an impersonator? It sure sounded like her! There was a video on Life & Style magazine.com! WOW, This family is screwed up, to say the least! They all lie! All I can do is shake my head, this is sad for the children. I pray that they ALL get help and fast!
naturegirl :)
Isn't nadya in jail yet?
"The parents...have been estranged from their daughter since she moved out of their home on Sunrise Drive."
"It all stemmed from the Life & Style Magazine article recently published where Angela was quoted as saying that the children left a mess in her Whittier home."
Estranged since the moveout or since the Life&Style article?
I know Octorazzi is only reporting what these habitual liars tell him, but I think he should also have them clarify their lies.
"Angela and Ed...the reporter misinterpreted and fluffed the story...they took photos of their home without permission...the photos were of a room where they have items out on the floor."
(idiots. of course the pics were of a room where you have stuff out on the floor. That is what the pic depicted; photos don't lie and neither does every magazine that doesn't show you in a favorable light.)
So according to the gypsy-gramps everything everyone reports is false. Well, one of their versions is false also. I am starting to see where Missy has learned her trade of lying to suit the circumstances.
Remember the RO vid when granny angrily went to Nadya's house demanding "why didn't your lawyer exonerate you? Why didn't he say Aiden was hurt at school?" Granny were you asking Nadya's lawyer to tell a lie?
I know it is a long-shot, but one day soon Nadya will REALLY seek professional to sort out her upbringing, her unhealthy family relations and how it all created who she is today. As an Adult, it is her responsibility to undue what the gypsy-gramps monster creation or she can choose to live as her parents do. If the kids are to have a chance at a okay life, she would have to take on a moral value system different from her parents.
ADMIN NOTE:
Okay, CLASSIC case of QUOTING out of CONTEXT.
ESTRANGED since SHE left the Whittier HOME.
Grandparents "BANNED" after the LIFE & STYLE MAG. article. Read the Postings as they are and DO NOT TRY to "MIX & MATCH" to your liking.
These two quotes you put together were never together in any posting. WOW! TYVM!
Now YOUR "Razzi" ONLY reports what he IS TOLD. YOU have to make up your mind on what to and what not to believe. You CAN follow the trail, Can't YOU? Do Tell!!!
The gypsy-gramps need to get SUED for claiming that basically the article and interview were lies and w/o their permission.
Come on now, most large mags know the consequences of falsifying a piece or filming w/o permission.
At the rate the gypsy-gramps are going-- even Time and Newsweek will be accused of false stories.
I take it Granny gave back the paycheck since she was displeased with the L&S article.
"I take it Granny gave back the paycheck since she was displeased with the L&S article."
ROFLMAO!!! Yea, THAT will happen!
There is NO WAY they can dispute what Angela said! The video tells it all! And what they (Ed and Nutsy) are doing to Angela is pure and simple blackmail! I think Angela is being coerced by Ed to change her story so they can see the grandkids. I don't blame them for wanting to see the babies, but for gawd's sake, let the truth prevail!
Photo Observation. Is it my imagination or is it PhotoCHOP, but Missy's top lip is shrinking. Naturally the bod's smaller, ie. lipo, tuck, living off of starbucks. (hopefully not crossing the line into bulimia or anorexia.
Linda, speculation is that she got the upper and lower implant taken out.
Linda and Nature...
Interesting to talk about the other side of the subject matter without having the "gushers" here. Kinda peaceful, isn't it? :-)
"I take it Granny gave back the paycheck since she was displeased with the L&S article."
That would be stupid. "You screwed me over in my interview. Here's your money back." That would be telling them alright.
Hi Grandma! Angela is the key to the whole family IMO. Ed spoiled Nadya to make up for Angela's overbearing ways. I can picture her critiquing everything Nadya did as a little girl. "Why did you tie your shoe that way" and on and on. Do you get that sense even a little?
Nadya said her lips were swollen because of the pregnancy weight, she lost the weight and now they are no longer swollen.
I want that dress. Anyone identify it yet?
Grandma, Grandma, Grandma, GrandMAAAAAAA you are going to have to take that comment away about all the gushers not having a job very soon. :)
Why is Nadya walking out of a house with Starbucks?
Too right. But wait, in the back round lurking--it is coming-- The same old 5 screens worth of diatribe-style manifestos.
I don't need to mention names just look for the yackity yacks that go on for 2 screens at a time.
Yeah, ROFLMAO2!!!
GrandmaB, this thread is funny!!
How can pictures lie or the video? "L&S magazine took them without her permission?" Why were they in the house? How did they get in? Someone had to invite them in. They just don't barge into peoples' homes. These people are something else!
Lindy, photo observation, Octomom's lips, look just as they did when all h*ll broke lose. She cant smile, normally, because of the lip enhancement, that she said, she didn't have!
naturegirl :)
"Nadya said her lips were swollen because of the pregnancy weight, she lost the weight and now they are no longer swollen."
Yes she said that in Jan or Feb. She lost a ton of wait early on-- even in the first month. So are you saying her fat lips were set on delay?
They took six months to catch up with the rest of her body? What a concept!
People mentioned when she started dropping weight, "Why weren't her lips losing weight?"
Figure it out: implants, fillers, etc.
But I can hear Missy now, "See I told you I gained 130 lbs, that's on record at Kaiser, and that is why I had fat crooked dimpled lips, but now I am size 2 and so are my lips."
I wonder who the lady is in the background wearing the white shirt. She obviously is Caucasian
That's funny-- I thought maybe she bought a franchise and opened shop in her house of 14+
Tommy Lee(motley crue) years ago had Starbucks come and install an official machine in his house. He made commented about why should he have to come down from the Hollywood Hills several times a day when he can afford to have the real thing in his home.
Is Nadya setting her sights on the Hills of Hollywood next?
Why would they shrink? Do you have to get them done every six months?
Gushers, what gushers? 8)
Don't see any around and I could care less if they find their way back!!
naturegirl :)
I'm going to steal this naturegirl 8).
Maybe she buys the starbucks in the package you make for yourself at home. You may also be able to buy the cups. Or someone could be bringing to her because they know she needs a lift.
Her lips have been appearing smaller for some time now.
***typo correction*** (typing to fast)
That's funny-- I thought maybe she bought a franchise and opened shop in her house of 14+
Tommy Lee(motley crue) years ago had Starbucks come and install an official machine in his house. He had commented- why should he have to come down from the Hollywood Hills several times a day when he can afford to have the real thing in his home.
Is Nadya setting her sights on the Hills of Hollywood next?
Oh noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo do you think Starbucks gave her a machine and the cups? To promote their product? If so that would be so sneaky. That way they don't get boycotted while at the same time have great free advertisement.
Here we go again. I'm warming up my right pinky to start hitting the Page Down button just to read through the multiple screen manifestos.
Hi Millie!
I don't think they would give her a Promo machine and set-up. That would put Starbucks in a neg light and be bad business since seeing her with Starbucks in hand angers so many.
She may have purchased the machine and accessories, though.
Who knows, but it is funny nonetheless.
She needs a lift alright.
Bang Zoom off to the Moon! As Ralph Cramden would say.
CupCake break while I still have a smile on me face.
I can see someone purchasing the machine but the cups? Maybe with purchase of a machine you get free cups. I am going to check out how much a machine costs for fun.
I'm sure it will blow over soon. Nadya gets upset with her mother often but doesnt last long. Those children need to see their grandmother no matter what the adults do. Children love their grandparents differently than we do. Dont you rem? I do.
Forget that. There is more than one machine.
Lise, did you get a job?!!! CONGRATULATIONS! (But, then, I don't necessarily consider you a gusher!)
Hi Lise and Millie.
Lindy.... love your postings... they put such a smile on my face!
I held back on the "she needs a lift" comment. Just let your mind roam.
Lise... what kind of job did you get? When do you start? That's terrific news!
And Sandee, too.
""since seeing her with Starbucks in hand angers so many""
Every time I see her holding a Starbucks I want one. It's subliminal. I have had maybe five Starbucks in my lifetime. I am not much of a coffee drinker. At my employment, they have a really nice set up with free coffee. It is really elaborate. I drank more coffee than ever before because it was so neat.
Grandma - I have had the job for what seems forever now. I start August 10. You probably don't remember but I interned there for two years which is what got my foot in the door for such a great job.
Hi Duggie!
Hi sandee!
Good one, Lindy!
Or maybe, she brought it home and didn't get a chance to finish it and she's out of the house again with not one child in her arms, but a cup from Starbucks and a camera lady in tow! Yeah, the camera lady is Caucasian, so what -millie-! You have something against white people? Why was that comment made? WOW!
Go ahead Lise, steal it!! 8)
naturegirl :)
Grandma - I will be a rep. I don't want to say anymore because of what has been going on. They keep close eye on their reps. They will look at your MySpace page, FB page, search for you on a frequent basis, frequent drug tests. We sign this really intense document so I want to be careful. I used my real name here like a dufus.
Anyway Lise, again Congrats!
That could be naturegirl because she also has like a cookie wrapped in Starbucks paper.
Thanks. 8) I love it.
Hi Duggie and Lise & Millie. I like Starbucks too but i go for the ice tea.(dislike coffee)
Good for you... go get 'em! :-)
It blows over with Angela and Ed as soon as Nadya needs a babysitter or someone to drive the kids to school.
(((Thanks))))
Starbucks is expensive!! Maybe for a treat once in a while! I think I've had it 3 times in my adult lifetime, yes, very good coffee, that it is!
Oh, BTW, Lise, I stole if from my hubby! 8)
U R welcome.
naturegirl :)
To my Admin Note (scolding)
I think you completely misunderstood my post. I was POINTING out that gramps told you one version of why they are not going to Nadya's but then told another reporter a different version.
In no way did I say that these two conflicting statements were written by you. I listed their two versions so as to compare and contrast their statements.
I don't "mix & match" as you call it, nor did I quote out of context.
I did follow the trail and that is how I came to the conclusion that they (gramps) are giving two versions to at least two different reporters.
Take it easy now.
Gotta run, everyone. Talk to you later!
Could be that lady is her friend filming for her. Did Raul say somewhere someone taped him while interviewing Nadya?
ADMIN NOTE: Octorazzi said HE paid the price in order to BRING YOU the latest and greatest interview with SULEMAN. Octorazzi HAD 3 CAMERAS on him as he SHOT OFF riveting questions about her finances, her children, her parents and ... OCTODAD!!!!! YES!!!! Octorazzi delved into that oh-so juicy topic of THE FATHER of the 14 CHILDREN!!!!!!
Octorazzi was SET UP, he was AMBUSHED by Nadya & her friend, but OCTORAZZI got some GREAT INFO FOR YOU!!! (Don't you believe that for a second... Octorazzi could see that coming from a mile away, just like when the pitcher shows you his fastball and YOU still hit it out DA park! - Pow!)
3 camera angles in HiDef capturing OCTORAZZI in ACTION! Knowing my PAL Luke HE will probably USE this DEFINITIVE ON-THE-FLY OCTOINTERVIEW, that only OCTORAZZI could PULL OFF, for his OctoDocumentary! Until Next Time, LATES!
Was wondering Raul... In the beginning didnt you film Nadya and show us here? Why did you stop? Loved watching the video of her answering your questions. Although, I love your photos.
"3 camera angles in HiDef capturing OCTORAZZI in ACTION! Knowing my PAL Luke HE will probably USE this DEFINITIVE ON-THE-FLY OCTOINTERVIEW, that only OCTORAZZI could PULL OFF, for his OctoDocumentary! Until Next Time, LATES!" as Octorazzi said.
And who says Octorazzi doesn't get paid for "clicks", "pics" and "OctoNews"?! I believe he gets his fair share!
But really Octorazzi, you really do mean "OctoDocuDrama", don't you?
naturegirl :)
ADMIN NOTE: OCTORAZZI has addressed this before but here it goes again for those who seem to have a short memory.
OCTORAZZI HAS NEVER MADE A CENT from OctoNews, OctoPhotos, OctoANYTHING. Octorazzi does this blog ON TOP of his regular daily assignments and there is no bonus, no O.T., no nothing AT ALL!!! Octorazzi has a full schedule of assignments on a daily basis AND he only DOES this BLOG for YOU!!! Imagine that, who knew - a SUPER HARD WORKER who is out there to bring the WORLD the latest and greatest OctoNews!!! There can be many pretenders, many contenders but only ONE OCTORAZZI!!!
Hello, folks! (Duggie, Naturegirl, Millie, Lise, Lindy, etc, those who have logged in and those who are lurking)
Another amazing day in Octoland! Can't wait for the details of RR's scoop, I spoze.
I can't stay to chat. Hey, Lise, I haven't forgotten about you. We've been having problems with our internet connection all day. *sigh*
I'll post those links you requested as soon as I can.
Bye!
Octorazzi,
I found this article interesting, as far as layman's terms and comprehensible. I copied and pasted every word. I didn't add or take any word away. I haven't figured out, the link thing, yet! Working on it though. Hope I'm not out of line. Let me know. Thanks! 8)
naturegirl :)
Little Stars, Big Drama
Octomom's TV deal and Jon & Kate's tabloid world bring new focus on child labor laws
gosselinoctomom.jpgNow that Nadya Suleman, better known as Octomom, has inked a TV deal for all 14 of her children, she might want to take a close look at another reality show that owes its success to a large brood--the Pennsylvania Department of Labor is currently looking into whether the hit reality show Jon & Kate Plus 8 is complying with the state's child labor law. All of this underscores an important issue that tends to slip through the tabloid headlines. If publicity-hungry parents aren't always looking out for their kids best interests, who is?
The answer varies depending on what state the show is filming in. Suleman and her children live in California, while the Gosselins call Pennsylvania home. According to Kelly Scott, head of the Employment Law Division at Ervin Cohen & Jessup in Beverly Hills, child labor laws generally apply to reality show kids in California, though every state has different laws, which have not all caught up with the reality TV craze. Pennsylvania laws, for example, "say you have to get a permit for a kid seven years of age and up, and that's when they can start working in the entertainment field," Scott tells iVillage.
But six of the eight Gosselin kids are only five years old. Does that mean being filmed around the clock for Jon & Kate Plus 8 might not qualify as working in the entertainment field? If not, then technically parents Jon and Kate Gosselin aren't working either, despite receiving hefty paychecks--between $25,000 and $75,000--for each episode. There is, however, a case to be made that the Gosselin kids aren't actually subject to child labor laws. "I think the argument here is that they're in their own home. They're not doing anything other than what they'd ordinarily be doing, or so we're told," says Scott. "And is that really working? Should the laws apply? I think that's what the Pennsylvania Labor Department has to look at. I think for them it's really the first time they've had to look at that."
Others aren't as likely to play devil's advocate. Stuart Shapiro, a partner at Cohen & Lombardo, P.C. in Buffalo, NY, feels that by appearing on the show, the kids are doing work. "The reason money is changing hands is because of these kids, so the parents aren't getting a gift. There has to be work involved," he says. "It's very hard for anybody to argue that when you're doing this number of episodes and featuring the kids and featuring their images, that they're not really providing an entertainment service."
The child labor guidelines facing Octomom, however, are more clearly delineated. Because her kids' work will fall under the California child labor laws, 15 percent of the children's earnings must go into a special fund called a "Coogan Account." That requirement came out of a 1935 case involving a child star named Jackie Coogan--a Los Angeles actor who had been discovered by Charlie Chaplin. Cougan sued his mother and stepfather whom he claimed had spent most of the millions he earned on luxuries for themselves like diamonds and cars. He won the case, but only got $126,000 after legal expenses. Coogan Accounts are currently only required in California, New York, Louisiana and New Mexico. A financial guardian has been appointed to oversee the remaining 85 percent of the Suleman kids' earnings. However, Scott explained that Suleman could still access that money "for the caring of and well being of the minor(s)." How much she can withdraw for those purposes is unclear. Monetarily, at least, it seems her children are more protected than the Gosselins, merely because they live in California.
Of course, it's not just about the money. Octomom already finds herself fending off one law suit by a child labor activist. And nobody knows yet how these reality shows will affect the lives of the children who star in them. From the TV show cameras--which are currently capturing the Gosselin's divorce--to the endless paparazzi attention, they're in the constant spotlight. Kathleen McKee, a professor at Regent University's Law School in Virginia, worries about the Gosselins in particular. "Why are these children less entitled to protection than any other children?" she asks. "They can't say, 'No, I don't want somebody to come in to my home. No, I don't want anybody to film me.' They're vulnerable. There is a certain level of exploitation going on. There wouldn't be a program with just Kate and Jon. It's because of the children that it has marketability."
California, on the other hand, has strict rules for kids in entertainment. According to Scott, issues like "lighting, how long they're in the lights, how many minutes they can work, if there has to be a nurse present when you have a certain number of infants, when you have to have a studio teacher present, when the guardian has to be present and when permits are required" are all regulated, protecting kids from any potential exploitation. Going forward, production companies will more likely make similar efforts to take the kids into account. "I think with the increased regulation and the possibility that you've got these advocacy groups out there that did not exist before, that you'll see less of that kind of stuff," says Shapiro. "There's going to be more control over it at the basic level."
-- Jacki Garfinkel
Posted by Jaclyn Garfinkel on July 29 at 5:18 PM |
Jacki needs to do better fact checking because one mistake calls the rest into question.
This is not true:
" A financial guardian has been appointed to oversee the remaining 85 percent of the Suleman kids' earnings."
There is no financial guardian and the GAL is only entitled to request pertinent documents and evaluate them to make a report to the courts. Nadya still has full control.
We all know that reality shows pick and choose what they show in order to create characters.
Angela is a whiner but we have also seen touching moments between her and the children. It's possible that she also said something about Nadya going to school and studying hard or talked about how much she loved the children and they just didn't show that part. Angela is way too trusting as she told the interviewers to go in by the backdoor and wait inside.
That is not the same as saying "go ahead and take pictures". If the whole house was like that they probably would have done a spread of pictures so they chose the worst part. Even the way they showed her in the dark made it seem like one of those whistle-blower reports where they halfass conceal the identity of the speaker.
They made it sound like Angela was criticizing Nadya for taking "only the nice furniture" not the crap but why would she take the crap? Angela is moving into a room in a friend's home so she doesn't need furniture. I'm sure Nadya had permission to take whatever she took.
Angela seems to have some mental issues of her own so even if she is being paid for these interviews she is still being taken advantage of. If the media chose to they could show a very different side of Angela. The kids seem to love her. There is a different side of Angela we are not seeing.
L & S magazine is doing the same thing that many of the posters on here do, they take the most negative aspect of the story and build it up with no thought for what they are doing to this family and its relationships. It is irresponsible journalism at almost its worst!
According to Legal Explorer.com, The GAL may become involved in the "financial issues" of a case when those issues affect the children. So, that article from Jacki is an excellent article. She did her "fact checking".
We don't know what Octogranny told L&S reporters to do or not to do, I wasn't there, were you?
How could "they" make it sound like octogranny was criticizing Octomom? When it was Octogranny in the video, or like I said, was it an impersonator? Yes, they did have her
"in the dark", for whatever that was all about, who knows?! Maybe Octogranny didn't want
"to be seen" fully in the video.
We can speculate, until we are blue in the face and we still wouldn't know what really happened.
Just like this situation with Octomom and 14 children, nobody knows what this woman is doing or plans to do for her children, other than exploit them!
naturegirl :)
Millie- You mean these tabloid mags use irresponsible journalism???? LOL
I haven't read the full LS article, but did see the video on their site. That was so foolish. Angela really didn't say much or give anything away. She didn't answer any important questions or give any more insight into the situation. Saying Nadya left the house messy is true, but we have no idea if there is more to the story. I think Nadya being mad at her mother is nothing new. This has been going on for a long time.
Ed spoiled Nadya and endulged her all her life. Only when Angela saw it spiraling out of control did she try to do anything about it. Nadya used this to her advantage with getting more from daddy and working
the parents against each other. Both Angela and Nadya have strong personalities and that is why they lock horns. Up until the octuplets, Nadya was a noone in the larger picture, now she is using this against Angela. I think Angela loves Nadya and all her grandchildren. She sees some of what we see and is powerless to change things she things need to be changed. It would be frustrating to be Angela. It is too bad they have this type of relationship.
It is true- there is a lot of reading between the lines with much of the tabloid stories out there,and truthfully a lot of Nadya's story is in this category. Sadly I don't think Eyeworks is out to depict a true story either. Just my feeling.
Hi Lulu, your statement about "only when Angela saw it spiraling out of control did she try to do anything about it" is correct. I believe that Angela herself said in the video that "maybe I should have given more discipline".
Of course we only can comment on the story and situation from what we see. I think anyone realizes that that in itself is limited, but. . . Nadya's actions speak loud and clear. She is challenged in many areas of her life. I know of and see many Nadya's, but there is a big difference.
Nadya chose to have all these children. Nadya chose to put herself out for the media to dissect. Nadya has made many decisions that have put in the poor light of the public. What about the family that had octuplets and one died? We didn't hear much about them because they choose to live their life differently, and I am sure it isn't just because they didn't have 6 other children. I just can't buy into the camp of "Poor, Poor Nadya"
There are many celebrities out there who don't make the tabloids, who are actually celebrities. Others make small time news int he tabloids with boring stories like they are at the store buying dog food, or they remembered to wear a bike helmet when out for a ride. Others make the tabloids because they are under age drinking, or don't have their kids strapped into their car seats. Yes, it must be hard having paps follow you waiting to make a mistake, but if you know they are out there, why say or do certain things?
I just came back from the store and looked at the LS article while in line. I don't think the article was all that awful and I sure there was some truth to it. Angela knows what the tabloids are all about and it was her choice to invite to her home. I saw nothing really new in that article that should make Nadya that mad. As I said. . . this is nothing new. The whole family likes to work the situation to their benefit. I think Angela has been telling Ndya that she can't do this all alone and this is one way of Nadya snubbing her back and saying "Watch me, yes I can."
But at what expense? At the kids expense, once again.
There is no "Poor, Poor Nadya" camp. There is a camp that recognizes no matter who you are it hurts, a lot, when your mother makes you sound like a horrible person in the national media.
You don't know what Nadya has said because Raul chose not to actually quote Nadya. Apparently Nadya's mother didn't know she had been "banned" and had in fact been to the house while Nadya wasn't there. If Nadya had "banned" her no one would have let her in the house. I can certainly understand why Nadya doesn't want to see her or talk to her at this point and doesn't want to discuss it with her father either. I wouldn't want to talk to my parents either.
Whether or not "it's her own fault" is besides the point. No one in my family would ever publically disparage another family member. Not even cousins or aunts and uncles. Not even if they were a murderer. If there was nothing good to say we would say "no comment".
Off to Ronald McDonald. Anyone want anything? Big and Tasty for me. What a treat. Scrape all the mayo off before first though. Want to get a McDonald wannabe Starbuck coffee but haven't a clue what to order. One time I ordered it and it was a cold coffee. Yucko. Hi! Bye!
Where is this video that is being discussed?
"According to Legal Explorer.com, The GAL may become involved in the "financial issues" of a case when those issues affect the children. So, that article from Jacki is an excellent article. She did her "fact checking"."
What a GAL *may* be assigned to do and what this particular GAL was assigned to do are not the same thing.
This particular GAL, as per Gloria Allred, is temporary and is assigned to look into not take over the financial dealings of the octoplets. The GALs position is exploratory. AFTER a report is turned in then the judge will examine the report and make a decision.
Yeah,
You're right! "There is no 'Poor, Poor Nadya' camp. There is a camp that recognizes you, no matter who you are and it hurts, a lot, when your mother makes you sound like a horrible person in the national media."
Octogranny should not say those things about her daughter and her grandchildren! Octomom needs her mother now, more than ever, but instead, they have chosen the bickering and backbiting road and that sure is sad. At times, it seems as though it is all an "act" for the media! But if Octogranny loves her grandchildren,(sure she does), she would not say things to upset her already "fragile" daughter, as she knows her limits. Going back to "the beginning" of this "infamous saga". Octomom had lied to her mother about "not being pregnant, it was a tumor"!
All this family does is LIE, LIE, AND MORE LIES!
So, I wouldn't believe a word coming out of anyone of their mouths! Seriously!
naturegirl :)
OK,
I agree, and understand this GAL, position is exploratory at this time. Not "taking over" the finances of the children, but to document and report what he sees and that still could include the financial musings. Jacki's comment about a "financial guardian overseeing the 85% of children's earnings", is off.
naturegirl :)
I read Missy's latest interview in US Weekly mag this morning. Funny. The comments I refer to were made by Nadya to USWeekly mag. (hopefully, she won't say she never did the interview, sound famiLIAR?)
Paraphrasing:
Nadya said that one of her indulgences is that she splurges on "Healthy Food" and buys Lots of ORGANIC meat.
(sounds famiLIAR...mmm wasn't that something Kate Gosselin said on one of her episodes?)
Guess I should start eating daily meals out a McDonalds, Pollo Loco, Carl's Jr., and Starbucks. I did not know they NOW serve ORGANIC MEAT. Wow!
Nadya said that she is an impulsive shopper. Yes! Yes! Yes! Negative old me finally AGREES with something out of those famous lips.
The honesty couldn't last forever, though. Because, next she says that she AVOIDS Toys R Us. What? She does a at least once a week trip and comes loaded up with Toys- look at all the crap she left at the old house as well as the boatload at the new house.
Pleasantly Plump Ladies... there may be help on the way. Nadya may market her special technique of sit-ups that gave her the "flat, flat stomach" in just 3 MONTHS after giving birth. Imagine that, and here I thought she was wearing a Girdle the whole time. I stand corrected.
She says the dad is Hispanic. (Now I know why some babies look Mexican/Hispanic, Irish/Caucasion, Arab/Middle Eastern, African American, every thing except Asian.) Uh, I don't think so.
At this point I thought I was watching an episode of Jon & Kate plus 8 when Nadya said something about being a clean freak and organization.
And on and on the article goes for about 4 pages
Sorry for the endless post but the article was filled with Oh-so-many-Facts right out of Nadya's mouth.
New York alone has about 6,000 homeless children.
"They are also used to small faces asking for seconds in the school cafeteria because dinner the night before was a bag of potato chips. They are no longer shocked by the sight of a 6-year-old in shoes three sizes too big."
hhhttp://www.nytimes.com/1987/02/03/nyregion/new-york-s-homeless-children-in-the-system-s-clutches.html
None of that means that Nadya's children are less deserving of protection or concern but I do think it puts things into perspective. The money being spent on investigating the details of Nadya's children's situation by the courts and CPS could be helping children living in parking-lots with their parents.
I look at the hoopla and outrage over the octoplets, who appear well-fed, appropriately dressed and housed, and as content as any normal babies. The older children are in private school and an educational specialist is seeing the ones that need it. They have extra-curricular activities. There are nannies day and night and all the children are seen in public regularly. Whatever we may think of the grandparents their love for all the children appears genuine. None of these children will ever slip through the cracks. All Nadya's kids, not just the octoplets, will almost certainly have enough money for college.
Nadya's general judgement, values, and what appears to be a very casual approach to disciplining are questionable but lots and lots of children aren't raised in ideal circumstances. Across Canada and the United States thousands and thousands of children are being raised in far worse circumstances. Sure they get some media attention once in a while when the "poverty" problem is discussed but rarely if ever with the passion reserved for Nadya's children or other reality show children.
That other children don't get the attention the octoplets are getting doesn't negate the validity of showing concern for the octoplets and their siblings. It does leave me feeling a bit cynical about what I see as extreme condemnation of Nadya in comparison to the lack of passion and will to address the needs of children across North America because we don't want to spend the money. There we are full of excuses as to why we can't or shouldn't or it's not our responsibility. But the main complaint is that we can't afford to, which is BS.
ANYONE - do you have the link to that video? The one where Nadya is walking into the courthouse?
Kindest regards,
Miserable I am
One court case is for the octoplets, not the children, to have a separate agent. The agent's focus would be maximizing income not the general well-being of the octoplets.
A lot of the reporting has been about Nadya having the octoplets not about the octoplets themselves. Nadya's past and present, what she wears, what she says, what she buys, where she goes. The attention is because she had octoplets on top of six other children not because of anything the octoplets have or haven't done.
The older children as individuals have also captured the public's interest. Babies are cute but they do get boring if they are just laying around babbling. The interest in all of these big family stories is how the family copes and with multiple births how they cope with X number of babies all the same age. The fame may come from having the multiples, but the multiples alone are not the story.
For the sake of argument, let's say there is a conflict of interest between the octoplets and the rest of the family. Having a separate agent would not remove conflict of interest problems it would exaberate them.
In contracts that involve the whole family two agents would be negotiating separately and would be played off each other. It puts the octoplets in conflict of interest with their siblings not just Nadya. The octoplet's agent whose income is based on what the octoplets make could refuse to accept contract offers on joint projects unless Nadya agreed to let the octoplets do many more hours of work on independent projects.
That could lead to the octoplets having to work much more to satisfy their agent's interests.
Even if it resulted in greater financial gain for the octoplets in comparison to their siblings and mother I'm not sure that is a good thing for them if it comes at the cost of pitting the interests of family members against one another. The octoplets aren't professional actors earning money from their personal talents. Emotionally, I think it would be better for all the children, octoplets included, to have the same earnings.
I don't see living 3, 4 or more to a bedroom and sharing 2 bathrooms between 15 people followed by a financial windfall at 18 as necessarily a good thing. I think that carries some real risks to it.
Depending on how much a separate financial manager with the right to examine contracts would cost for ALL the children not just the octoplets I think it could be a good thing for them.
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Infosaturated - Do you have the link to that video? I would like to watch it. T*H*A*N*K*S*!
No Lise I don't, sorry. I can't remember where I got it in the first place. I thought in one of these threads but I don't know which.
Thanks Info. I thought you had me on block or something. I was getting sad. Lindy shared it with me!
Still don't think Angela is that awful. Yes, Nadya is a product of her environment, as well we all are. Angela of hers and Ed of his, but there is a time where we all become adults and need to take accountability for our actions and not blame our parents.
I'm sure it does hurt to have your parents say something negative about you, especially to the public, but I remember Nadya saying some negative things about her parents ( Angela) too. No excuses for either one of them! Nadya is an adult, as Angela and needs to also take accountability for her actions.
The point I was making is I don't feel sorry for Nadya because I don't think any of this recent falling out is anything new. I feel sorry for her because she doesn't have a good relationship with her mother, but in the general sense, not because of the article etc.article. We are just hearing about it because of the media. I think something like this has been happening all along, and has nothing to do with the octuplets birth.
They need counseling to mend their relationship and to be better role models for these children. I can hear both Nadya and Angela saying negative things about the other in front of the children.
Angela says this has been going on since Nadya moved, but the children have been seeing the grandparents. We have been seeing photos of them, as well as Angela staying with the children during her first hospital stay. This is just the latest rift. I am sure there have been many.
Sad isn't it?
Are those Chanel sunglasses Nadya is wearing? Looks like it to me.
Wonder how much formula and diapers those shades could have bought...